Today's the day you've all been waiting for: we're wrapping up my tips and tricks specifically about word choice.
Tip 5: Putting It All Together and Why
Alright, so let's summarize each of the previous tips, then we'll cover the connections and the overall theme.
Our first tip was to be aware of vernaculars, but let's simplify that again. Be aware of different sets of words and how they're used differently based on context. Be aware of it for when others' use it, and be aware of it when you do it, so you're ready to answer the question as to "why". It will also help you identify when public statements aren't *exactly* what a person means due to the need to avoid legal issues, as happens with news media very often.
Our second tip was to be specific with your meanings, and be sure of the meanings of others. Be willing to explain the definition you're using, and be willing to ask respectfully for someone else's used definition if you think there might be a miscommunication.
Our third tip was to not be an uninvited editor. Believe it or not, grammar Nazis pretty much derail conversations. If you're looking to learn more, you don't want a derailed conversation.
Our fourth tip was to avoid attacking people, but rather judge and argument or claim by its merit. Look for evidence, look for good reason, etc. Attack the argument, not the arguer.
Now, the whole reason for this is because we're all here to try to learn more about the world. That goal of learning more and the goal of "winning" an argument by beating the "other side" are mutually exclusive. If you want to learn more, and you want to be someone who helps others learn more, you need to let go of the feeling that you need to "win." If you can't let go of the feeling, at least follow through on the actions, and be careful with what you say so you don't derail the conversation yourself. That being said, don't torture yourself by staying in a conversation where you're being attacked without hope of getting it back on track towards the truth.
I know today's post is short, but I figured all of us could use a bit of an easier day.
As I've said before, if you're following along, I will "see" you in the next post, and have a great day. Goodbye.
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